Is anxiety at the root of PDA?

I’ve been doing some thinking (actually I never stop thinking haha my brain doesn’t have an off button), is anxiety really at the root of Pathological Demand Avoidance? Or is there something else. A couple of years ago, if you’d asked me if I ever felt anxious I’d have laughed and said “nope, I never […]


I shouldn’t have to do this. He shouldn’t be behaving like this. We shouldn’t have to put up with her acting like this. You shouldn’t put up with that behaviour. I shouldn’t have to live like this. He should act his age. She should know better. Should. People seem to assume that should equals must. […]

A place to waffle

What’s the point of having a blog if I can’t ramble on about myself once in a while? I dunno, maybe there are other places to unleash my spew of words…my brain isn’t working enough for me to think of a better place so I came here. Lately I’ve been a bit…bleagh. Just, floppy I […]