No, we can’t just accept ‘no’.

We can’t just accept ‘no’. There is no accepting it for us. It’s not a game we are playing, we’re not trying to ‘win’ anything, we’re not doing this for fun or because we want to. This is our life. We don’t want to act this way. We don’t get to ‘win’ against ourselves. Everyday […]

Reason or excuse?

Reason: a cause, explanation, or justification for an action or event. Excuse: seek to lessen the blame attaching to (a fault or offence); try to justify. Reasons can and are often mistaken for excuses. If a child refuses to eat their food saying that it feels yucky the parent might think this is an excuse […]